"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Online Story Gone Sour

Snarfwidget

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Hi guys, first time posting on here. I've come across a problem and I think this board is just the right place to ask for advice. I'll be as short about it as possible.

I started chatting with a girl online. We talked occasionally but I kept my distance. I joked around with her a lot. I started getting to know her after a several weeks I realized that she was pretty ****ing stupid.

At first it was okay the usual chatter. But about if I remember a week after we started talking she messages me real cryptic-like slowly working her way to tell me that she was raped by a Muslim guy. This story came out of the blue, but I wasn't shocked about it for some reason I always end up with the crazy women (working on this). I listened in, horrified about the story and pissed that anyone could do this to her. More on this coming up.

Sometime passed by, we eventually exchanged phone numbers. I would text her and she would respond., vice versa. Then one day out of nowhere she sent me a text while I'm in class about the guy who raped her being at her house. The guy who raped her was her fathers friend. I got back home and tried being a good friend to her. But she wouldn't talk to me on the mic as she usually did, and I could sense that she was angry but taking it out on me, so I sorta backed off. At the end of the conversation she joked about whether she would talk to me again.

It ended up that I ignored her from then on. She continued trying to get ahold of me but not only was she a stupid ***** who had no sense of humor I just didn't like her. She tried numerous times to contact me leaving me messages. I ignored 'em only cause I put too much time into it and it was a waste for me. 2 months have gone by now. And she is STILL trying to get ahold of me. I find out that she got ahold of someone I regularly talk to online trying to find out where I was. Well, she called me yesterday. The weird part, she called me many times in a matter of minutes. Then called me one last time a few hours later.

I'm going to continue to ignore her. I'm not annoyed because I know she's a crazy girl especially for continuing to bother with the situation after 2 months. But what should I do if incase it doesn't stop?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Miguel

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Simple, CHANGE YOUR PHONE NUMBER! lol, I'm kinda not the brightest and I can think this one up man. Common!
 

Maxtro

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I think you should firmly but still politely tell her that you never want to communicate with her again. Hopefully she will get the message and leave you alone.

If she doesn't stop after that then you may need to change your contact info.
 
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