"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Online seduction success story

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For the first time ever, I've successfully # closed a HB 8 (Long blonde hair, sexy blue eyes, and a very tight body) online last night. She is slightly younger than me (21), at 18, but I think she is sexy as hell. I talked to her for about 30 minutes, teasing her, and making fun of her habits just enough to let her guard down. At the end I suggested for her to give me her # because I was tired of typing. She gave me her cell number and asked that I text her because her phone doesn't work well with receiving calls, at which I teased her for not knowing how to use it properly. She laughed a bit and said I was 'cute' and funny, and then I told her that I have to go, but asked her not to think about me too hard, and that I will text her when she least expects it. What do you guys think. I have a day off on Monday and Thursday only this upcoming week. When should I text her? I was thinking after work on Tuesday (9:30pm) because that would be the 3rd/4th day since I got her number.

What do you all think?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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It's not a success until you meet her and get whatever it is you're after.

With online game i don't like to fvck around. Get the meeting set up and make you move in person, not on a computer
 

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which is why i was wonder when to text her...i dont want to seem like someone whos got nothing to do so i was thinking the 3 day rule should be applied.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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im starting to feel bad about it though...if she was 24 and i was 27 it'd be no problem, but my younger sister is turning 18 in a few weeks...thats kinda freaking me out lol.
 

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Alright so I talked to her and we decided to meet in a couple of days. I am looking for a piece of ass mostly, I'm not the type of guy who is looking for a long term relationship now. Haven't been on a date in 5 years though. How should I approach this?
 

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Go out and do some approaches during the days leading up to this date. Try to approach 10 girls a day/night. Go out alone as well. You'll most likely get some more numbers to work with and even if you don't you'll at least have some thicker skin when you show up on your date.
 

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the only problem is i have no time because i constantly work. that day (when we meet) is supposed to be my only day off work this week. it's good advice though, thanks man!
 
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