"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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For the first time ever, I've successfully # closed a HB 8 (Long blonde hair, sexy blue eyes, and a very tight body) online last night. She is slightly younger than me (21), at 18, but I think she is sexy as hell. I talked to her for about 30 minutes, teasing her, and making fun of her habits just enough to let her guard down. At the end I suggested for her to give me her # because I was tired of typing. She gave me her cell number and asked that I text her because her phone doesn't work well with receiving calls, at which I teased her for not knowing how to use it properly. She laughed a bit and said I was 'cute' and funny, and then I told her that I have to go, but asked her not to think about me too hard, and that I will text her when she least expects it. What do you guys think. I have a day off on Monday and Thursday only this upcoming week. When should I text her? I was thinking after work on Tuesday (9:30pm) because that would be the 3rd/4th day since I got her number.

What do you all think?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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It's not a success until you meet her and get whatever it is you're after.

With online game i don't like to fvck around. Get the meeting set up and make you move in person, not on a computer
 

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which is why i was wonder when to text her...i dont want to seem like someone whos got nothing to do so i was thinking the 3 day rule should be applied.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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im starting to feel bad about it though...if she was 24 and i was 27 it'd be no problem, but my younger sister is turning 18 in a few weeks...thats kinda freaking me out lol.
 

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Alright so I talked to her and we decided to meet in a couple of days. I am looking for a piece of ass mostly, I'm not the type of guy who is looking for a long term relationship now. Haven't been on a date in 5 years though. How should I approach this?
 

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Go out and do some approaches during the days leading up to this date. Try to approach 10 girls a day/night. Go out alone as well. You'll most likely get some more numbers to work with and even if you don't you'll at least have some thicker skin when you show up on your date.
 

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the only problem is i have no time because i constantly work. that day (when we meet) is supposed to be my only day off work this week. it's good advice though, thanks man!
 
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