"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Just been back online after a layoff. Messaged a woman after reading a great thread here about just asking women straight out online. Can't find it again, though.

Anyway, she's into Pink Floyd like myself.

Me."Fancy a drink and a chat about Floyd sometime? "

Her." would love to..
can you wait a bit longer? LIke two months after?
Will arrive on 25th of Jan "

How would you respond to that?

Mike.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Mikey C said:
Just been back online after a layoff. Messaged a woman after reading a great thread here about just asking women straight out online. Can't find it again, though.

Anyway, she's into Pink Floyd like myself.

Me."Fancy a drink and a chat about Floyd sometime? "

Her." would love to..
can you wait a bit longer? LIke two months after?
Will arrive on 25th of Jan "

How would you respond to that?

Mike.
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2 months?

Say "Sure see you then"

And then expect never to see her.
 
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Mikey C said:
Just been back online after a layoff. Messaged a woman after reading a great thread here about just asking women straight out online. Can't find it again, though.

Anyway, she's into Pink Floyd like myself.

Me."Fancy a drink and a chat about Floyd sometime? "

Her." would love to..
can you wait a bit longer? LIke two months after?
Will arrive on 25th of Jan "

How would you respond to that?

Mike.
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Cut to the chase immediately. Tell her:

Sure. Give me your number and I'll text you mine in a few.


This way you've at least exchanged numbers. If she doesn't give her number or stalls? She's full of it. (Some do take a few days and just reply with their numbers) Leave the convo at telling her to give you her number and you'll text her yours. (After small talk on text tell her to send you a pic for your phone. (So you'll remember who she is. Don't tell her that.) Convo goes offline as soon as she leaves her number.

You may make small talk in the meantime but don't wait around. Spam other chicks. If in the future you're serious with someone else then don't respond. Or if you've got nothing to do at that point respond and meet up with her.


Again. If she doesn't leave her number for you to text her yours...Keep it moving and don't bother playing email tennis.
 
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Be more smooth about asking for her #. Do it like this:

I'd like to talk to you sometime but you'll have to help me out by filling in the blanks. (xxx) - xxx - xxxx. :)

Works 90 percent of the time.
 
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