"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Online "MSN" chatting to girls you don't see often

DJSupremo

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SHould I talk to chics i don't see very often online or only stick 2 phone n in person?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Chatting with people you don't see often means you don't have other people to chat to..


Get other people to chat to, such as in person, over phone, over web cam, etc... Then you won't have time chatting with women you will never see or rarely see.


What's the point of the chat? To connect. Texting is single dimensional, only men get excided texting with a woman. Women has 50 windows open chatting with 50 different men. She don't care what she says, as long as guys text her. It's her own cheating way of getting an ego boost. Another way would be to give men her phone number and then don't answer, or be a b1tch on the phone.

Thus, what's the point?
 

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Ignore the blustering. Do whatever you want. Do you really in the end think it matters?

These dumb rules of what we should and shouldn't do are, well, dumb. I've met female friends of friends through an instant messenger chatroom and had them invite me over explicitly for sex after talking to them a bit. Not a rare occurrence.

If you feel like chatting online just do it. Or will you just listen to the parroting of "real men should be out climbing mountains and be way too busy to talk online." To hell with that. If you enjoy it, do it.

"50 different men." No they don't. Pure fantasy. They might get a few messages but if you're interesting to them they put those to the background. If you're getting a delayed response from a girl you're talking to online, you're fvcking up.
 

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mrRuckus said:
Ignore the blustering. Do whatever you want. Do you really in the end think it matters?

These dumb rules of what we should and shouldn't do are, well, dumb. I've met female friends of friends through an instant messenger chatroom and had them invite me over explicitly for sex after talking to them a bit. Not a rare occurrence.

If you feel like chatting online just do it. Or will you just listen to the parroting of "real men should be out climbing mountains and be way too busy to talk online." To hell with that. If you enjoy it, do it.

"50 different men." No they don't. Pure fantasy. They might get a few messages but if you're interesting to them they put those to the background. If you're getting a delayed response from a girl you're talking to online, you're fvcking up.


Ohppp. You putting me down, then qualifying yourself, then raising your own value.. (and we know who does this, dont' we)


YOU ARE BETTER THAN ME, SISSY BOY. :crackup:
 
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