Chatting with people you don't see often means you don't have other people to chat to..
Get other people to chat to, such as in person, over phone, over web cam, etc... Then you won't have time chatting with women you will never see or rarely see.
What's the point of the chat? To connect. Texting is single dimensional, only men get excided texting with a woman. Women has 50 windows open chatting with 50 different men. She don't care what she says, as long as guys text her. It's her own cheating way of getting an ego boost. Another way would be to give men her phone number and then don't answer, or be a b1tch on the phone.
Thus, what's the point?