"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I'm really not into the whole online dating thing, but I did meet this 7-8 online recently. I emailed her once before I asked for her number, got it and called her last night. She seemed busy as fu*k getting all her friends together for this birthday get together and said she would call back later. A couple hours later she called, I wasn't near my phone so I didn't answer and she left a message that she would call back later. She didn't call and left me an email this morning saying she was sorry, but to call her between 5-7 tonight. I am thinking of calling her and telling her we should get together next weekend. I'm not about doing all this bullsh*t before actually meeting the girl, but I have a good feeling about this one. Any advice would be great.

Adam
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Hmm, she wants to invite you for a birthday but wants to talk to you about coming over?

Man, your post is giving me headaches.

Do what you want.
 
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She obviously has some interested in you otherwise she wouldn't bother leaving message and calling you back.
 
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