"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I'm really not into the whole online dating thing, but I did meet this 7-8 online recently. I emailed her once before I asked for her number, got it and called her last night. She seemed busy as fu*k getting all her friends together for this birthday get together and said she would call back later. A couple hours later she called, I wasn't near my phone so I didn't answer and she left a message that she would call back later. She didn't call and left me an email this morning saying she was sorry, but to call her between 5-7 tonight. I am thinking of calling her and telling her we should get together next weekend. I'm not about doing all this bullsh*t before actually meeting the girl, but I have a good feeling about this one. Any advice would be great.

Adam
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Hmm, she wants to invite you for a birthday but wants to talk to you about coming over?

Man, your post is giving me headaches.

Do what you want.
 
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She obviously has some interested in you otherwise she wouldn't bother leaving message and calling you back.
 
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