"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Online game taking a turn for the better

TheMonkeyKing

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Trying the same game I did last week when I possibly over-gamed some high-end (read, stuck-up) broad on OKC.

This time it seems to be working with a hotter birdy a rank or two (may be a 7-8 blondie) above the one who rejected my advances last week....

The story so far..... I actually appropriated this techne froma post I saw over at Heartiste:

TMK:
Nice tash! (she has a photo of herself with a fake moustache).
Let's go for a drink.


SexyLass (not actual username):
Ha! Thanks. You don't waste time do you?!

TMK:
No way man! Face to face is way more fun!
Number?


SexyLass:
Haha. True
But you don't know my name yet
(notice the use of the word 'yet'; she wants me and I've done nothing except give her orders and ask for her number before her name!)

TMK:
Also very true.
Name and number??

(20 mins later)

Please....?!


SexyLass: (a couple of hours ago)
Haha. Well, as you asked so politely.....


Now she's playing a bit allusive because maybe she realised how easy she's made it so far. But this for me is how it should be. I'm not spending hours online chatting sh!t with some bird that might never meet me. Cut STRAIGHT to the chase!

I've had to do less work with this one than the one last week, I've pretty much secured the number and at least a date and I've put almost zero effort in to the whole affair.

This is the way life (especially online dating) should be. Straightforward fun, no BS, between consenting adults. Anything more complex and its not worth it in my view.

Will update with results.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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TheMonkeyKing

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Espi said:
Nice work inviting her for a drink at the outset. That's the way I do it.

I never ask them for their phone number. I let them accept or reject my invite first. If they accept, I say, "Great see you at ____ then." They will usually (not always) offer up their number without my even having to ask.

Ha! Nice.

Gets me thinking, try telling one to meet me at (time) and (place) and see if they turn up; ratchet the intrigue and mystery right up to 11. About as independent from outcome as one can be.
 
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