"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Online game... Myspace facebook, ect.

HalfAddict

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I know some of you cats are really into this, it's not really my bag but I'm about to move halfway across the country and I wanna see if I can't get something started before my arrival.

But I really can't do the online thing well, I'm used to face to face conversation, body language, saying what pops into my head and not having to think about it for an entire day.

So any of you who are into this ****, and do it well, drop me a line or post some tips here as the search engine pisses me off.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Alphamale1821

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i personally don't like gaming on myspace, facebook, online etc. either. Though kinda ironic but my Ex GF and the last chick i was was talking to were both from myspace And they both messaged me first.
 

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It's not my bag either, but I wanna build some kind of rapport with people before my arrival.
And before all the haters come here and tell me it's not the same yaddayadda, I'm well aware of this which is why I don't do it locally.


But since these ladies are 800 miles away and I won't be there for a month or two, this will have to do.
 

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I had a friend of mine who had a whole social circle waiting for him when he moved to our town. He hit up everyone he could on myspace, told them his story, what side of town he would be staying on and wanted to know what the hot clubs and places were to hang out. He hit up guys and girls. Plus he was a small time rapper so he promoted his music. He ended up with one girl who dug him and introduced him to everyone. Since they had seen him previously on myspace it was easier for him.

Try that and see if you can make some friends before you get there.
 

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Warrior74 said:
I had a friend of mine who had a whole social circle waiting for him when he moved to our town. He hit up everyone he could on myspace, told them his story, what side of town he would be staying on and wanted to know what the hot clubs and places were to hang out. He hit up guys and girls. Plus he was a small time rapper so he promoted his music. He ended up with one girl who dug him and introduced him to everyone. Since they had seen him previously on myspace it was easier for him.

Try that and see if you can make some friends before you get there.
This is good advice. Instead of just sending "pick-up" messages to hot chicks (which they get ALL the time), concentrate on building a social network and then use that network to meet all the p---y you can handle.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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