Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Online game... Myspace facebook, ect.

HalfAddict

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I know some of you cats are really into this, it's not really my bag but I'm about to move halfway across the country and I wanna see if I can't get something started before my arrival.

But I really can't do the online thing well, I'm used to face to face conversation, body language, saying what pops into my head and not having to think about it for an entire day.

So any of you who are into this ****, and do it well, drop me a line or post some tips here as the search engine pisses me off.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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i personally don't like gaming on myspace, facebook, online etc. either. Though kinda ironic but my Ex GF and the last chick i was was talking to were both from myspace And they both messaged me first.
 

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It's not my bag either, but I wanna build some kind of rapport with people before my arrival.
And before all the haters come here and tell me it's not the same yaddayadda, I'm well aware of this which is why I don't do it locally.


But since these ladies are 800 miles away and I won't be there for a month or two, this will have to do.
 

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I had a friend of mine who had a whole social circle waiting for him when he moved to our town. He hit up everyone he could on myspace, told them his story, what side of town he would be staying on and wanted to know what the hot clubs and places were to hang out. He hit up guys and girls. Plus he was a small time rapper so he promoted his music. He ended up with one girl who dug him and introduced him to everyone. Since they had seen him previously on myspace it was easier for him.

Try that and see if you can make some friends before you get there.
 

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Warrior74 said:
I had a friend of mine who had a whole social circle waiting for him when he moved to our town. He hit up everyone he could on myspace, told them his story, what side of town he would be staying on and wanted to know what the hot clubs and places were to hang out. He hit up guys and girls. Plus he was a small time rapper so he promoted his music. He ended up with one girl who dug him and introduced him to everyone. Since they had seen him previously on myspace it was easier for him.

Try that and see if you can make some friends before you get there.
This is good advice. Instead of just sending "pick-up" messages to hot chicks (which they get ALL the time), concentrate on building a social network and then use that network to meet all the p---y you can handle.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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