"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Online game... Myspace facebook, ect.

HalfAddict

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I know some of you cats are really into this, it's not really my bag but I'm about to move halfway across the country and I wanna see if I can't get something started before my arrival.

But I really can't do the online thing well, I'm used to face to face conversation, body language, saying what pops into my head and not having to think about it for an entire day.

So any of you who are into this ****, and do it well, drop me a line or post some tips here as the search engine pisses me off.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Alphamale1821

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i personally don't like gaming on myspace, facebook, online etc. either. Though kinda ironic but my Ex GF and the last chick i was was talking to were both from myspace And they both messaged me first.
 

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It's not my bag either, but I wanna build some kind of rapport with people before my arrival.
And before all the haters come here and tell me it's not the same yaddayadda, I'm well aware of this which is why I don't do it locally.


But since these ladies are 800 miles away and I won't be there for a month or two, this will have to do.
 

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I had a friend of mine who had a whole social circle waiting for him when he moved to our town. He hit up everyone he could on myspace, told them his story, what side of town he would be staying on and wanted to know what the hot clubs and places were to hang out. He hit up guys and girls. Plus he was a small time rapper so he promoted his music. He ended up with one girl who dug him and introduced him to everyone. Since they had seen him previously on myspace it was easier for him.

Try that and see if you can make some friends before you get there.
 

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Warrior74 said:
I had a friend of mine who had a whole social circle waiting for him when he moved to our town. He hit up everyone he could on myspace, told them his story, what side of town he would be staying on and wanted to know what the hot clubs and places were to hang out. He hit up guys and girls. Plus he was a small time rapper so he promoted his music. He ended up with one girl who dug him and introduced him to everyone. Since they had seen him previously on myspace it was easier for him.

Try that and see if you can make some friends before you get there.
This is good advice. Instead of just sending "pick-up" messages to hot chicks (which they get ALL the time), concentrate on building a social network and then use that network to meet all the p---y you can handle.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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