"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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brownlover

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Hi Chaps

I'm an Indian dude living in UK. I tried online dating but have had no success. I have sent some 100 messages but have had no replies. Am I in a difficult situation? The worst thing is my picture is on it lol
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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What happened when you tried searching the forum?
 

brownlover

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well. I just send a message saying I like your profile and would you like to be friends or something. but they read and not reply.
 

stevera004

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Originally posted by brownlover
well. I just send a message saying I like your profile and would you like to be friends or something. but they read and not reply.
DAFS (Do a Fine Search)! This has come up lots of times ... for a quick fix, there are dudes selling online seduction courses that might help you ... but this is mainly 'outer game' ... fix the inner game, and the outer game will naturally follow. And, to fix the inner game, read the bible, do a bootcamp, and participate in this forum and in life !

Ciao,
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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