"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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brownlover

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Hi Chaps

I'm an Indian dude living in UK. I tried online dating but have had no success. I have sent some 100 messages but have had no replies. Am I in a difficult situation? The worst thing is my picture is on it lol
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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What happened when you tried searching the forum?
 
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well. I just send a message saying I like your profile and would you like to be friends or something. but they read and not reply.
 
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Originally posted by brownlover
well. I just send a message saying I like your profile and would you like to be friends or something. but they read and not reply.
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DAFS (Do a Fine Search)! This has come up lots of times ... for a quick fix, there are dudes selling online seduction courses that might help you ... but this is mainly 'outer game' ... fix the inner game, and the outer game will naturally follow. And, to fix the inner game, read the bible, do a bootcamp, and participate in this forum and in life !

Ciao,
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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