"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Online Dating: Why do I get 2 distinct responses?

Swashbuckler

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It seems like if the girl is a HB 9-10; they'll rarely respond.

Yet HB 8 and below, I'll get flooded by these girls demanding attention. I even had one girl ask to marry me as her first message.

Why are there such different response? You would think I'd at least get some sort of balance, but it's kind of a sharp cut off between the two.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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TheBucketOfTruth

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What has been said is spot on but also factor in the fact that a greater proportion of 10s are probably fake profiles as well as the fact that online, the hotter the woman the better your profile (resume basically) has to be for them to even consider a response.
 
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