"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Online Dating: Why do I get 2 distinct responses?

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Swashbuckler

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It seems like if the girl is a HB 9-10; they'll rarely respond.

Yet HB 8 and below, I'll get flooded by these girls demanding attention. I even had one girl ask to marry me as her first message.

Why are there such different response? You would think I'd at least get some sort of balance, but it's kind of a sharp cut off between the two.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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TheBucketOfTruth

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What has been said is spot on but also factor in the fact that a greater proportion of 10s are probably fake profiles as well as the fact that online, the hotter the woman the better your profile (resume basically) has to be for them to even consider a response.
 
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