"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Online Dating: Why do I get 2 distinct responses?

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Swashbuckler

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It seems like if the girl is a HB 9-10; they'll rarely respond.

Yet HB 8 and below, I'll get flooded by these girls demanding attention. I even had one girl ask to marry me as her first message.

Why are there such different response? You would think I'd at least get some sort of balance, but it's kind of a sharp cut off between the two.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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What has been said is spot on but also factor in the fact that a greater proportion of 10s are probably fake profiles as well as the fact that online, the hotter the woman the better your profile (resume basically) has to be for them to even consider a response.
 
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