Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Online Dating- what to write to a girl?

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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ilikecharlene

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Don't write "dang, you're hot!!" or "killer boobs!!" or some such.

The key in initial contact is to stand out and be original. A lot of PUAs/dating gurus say this, but in my experience it has worked. I've had many dialogues, meetings and at least responses by using that method.

If her profile says "I like to hike" or "I really like baseball" ask her "where have you hiked to?" or "You think the Red Sox will win the World Series soon?" Better still, make a joke out of her profile comments, in a ****y way. Once on OKCupid, a woman said she lives in Barcelona in Spain and it was one of her hobbies to see Barca FC. I sent an initial message saying "You like Barca? Oh, that's the one-man team with the Argentinian carrying everything? lol" She responded and was quite amused, and it went from there.

I guess by being a bit ****y/funny, it urges the woman to respond, if not out of thinking "ha! this guy has cheek lol... let's see what he's all about".
 
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i mean , i saw a nice one who wrote that she graduated a first degree , so i sent her a msg , first degree? cool .. in what? its OK?
 
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