"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Online Dating- what to write to a girl?

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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ilikecharlene

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Don't write "dang, you're hot!!" or "killer boobs!!" or some such.

The key in initial contact is to stand out and be original. A lot of PUAs/dating gurus say this, but in my experience it has worked. I've had many dialogues, meetings and at least responses by using that method.

If her profile says "I like to hike" or "I really like baseball" ask her "where have you hiked to?" or "You think the Red Sox will win the World Series soon?" Better still, make a joke out of her profile comments, in a ****y way. Once on OKCupid, a woman said she lives in Barcelona in Spain and it was one of her hobbies to see Barca FC. I sent an initial message saying "You like Barca? Oh, that's the one-man team with the Argentinian carrying everything? lol" She responded and was quite amused, and it went from there.

I guess by being a bit ****y/funny, it urges the woman to respond, if not out of thinking "ha! this guy has cheek lol... let's see what he's all about".
 
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zorg198

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i mean , i saw a nice one who wrote that she graduated a first degree , so i sent her a msg , first degree? cool .. in what? its OK?
 
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