"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Online dating - what do you guys use as openers?

bigdave17

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or what do you even say once you're matched up with a girl?


I feel like any conversation I want to start is going to be boring standard stuff
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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devilkingx2

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tell them you're having a black friday sale at your house, all clothes 100% off
 

HankHill

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I have a super playful and funny personality but my experience on OLD is trying to be funny and flirty over instant msg or text doesn't work well initially because you just come across as needy and creepy. My success rate is much higher if I carry myself as a self-respecting adult than a horny juvenile. Now if I looked like Channing Tatum I could say anything and still get away with that.
 
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