"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I just watched something on the news that men in Winnipeg are being assaulted and robbed when meeting up with women they connected with via a free online dating site They didn't say which site, but the men are invited to meet the woman at her home, and when they arrive they are beaten by a group of people and their wallets are stolen.

Everyone's always so focused on women's safety when it comes to OLD but we forget that men could become victims of crime too. Be careful guys.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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AJ84 said:
I just watched something on the news that men in Winnipeg are being assaulted and robbed when meeting up with women they connected with via a free online dating site They didn't say which site, but the men are invited to meet the woman at her home, and when they arrive they are beaten by a group of people and their wallets are stolen.

Everyone's always so focused on women's safety when it comes to OLD but we forget that men could become victims of crime too. Be careful guys.
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Just shows how guys on OLD are desperate for the Sech

If its too easy to Look truth and meet "her" on her terms... cry horny and deserve it lol

Also, it's winnipeg what you expect lol.. probably tourist who got caught
 
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Von said:
Just shows how guys on OLD are desperate for the Sech

If its too easy to Look truth and meet "her" on her terms... cry horny and deserve it lol

Also, it's winnipeg what you expect lol.. probably tourist who got caught
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Yep lol being from Toronto I didn't want to point out that yeah, Winnipeg, because the rest of Canada already thinks we're pretentious aholes.
 
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Yep lol being from Toronto I didn't want to point out that yeah, Winnipeg, because the rest of Canada already thinks we're pretentious aholes.
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You ARE

Signed the Montreal guy :p
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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You folks in Canada can't pack heat can you? I'm always strapping in my sh!t especially when dating new women and or going to unfamiliar places.
 
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I was in a similar situation as the Canadian scam but mine wasn't a scam per se. I was with a chick I met online at a bar that was pretty rough. I was not drinking and was packing thank God. This guy thought I was hitting on his girlfriend, a different chick. She was a friend of the chick I was with. I Was just talking to both of them and he was a jealous insecure animal. I walked out to parking lot and about six or seven of them, him and friends, followed me to the parking lot and we're going to beat my ass. After trying to verbally defuse the situation I flash my badge and gun and told them they better just turn around and exit stage rear back inside. This bought me enough time to get in my car,lock it, and GTF out of Dodge. Close call.
 
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All the tricks to avoid scammers are simple and obvious.
1. Just check girl's messages in the google search. If she is a scammer you're certain to find same messages she sent you. Because the usually repeat themselves.
2. NEVEREVER send her money.
3. Use sites with anti-scam protection. This Ukraine dating service is a good example of safe one.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Did he get the B.D.S.M. package? Was there a hidden extra charge?
 
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Its kind of common sense that you never meet a woman who you never met before at her home. Usually its to ensure she isn't a catfish, but for safety reasons too.
 
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