Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Precisely my experience. It's just a pool of potential matches. I've had very good success with OLD. If messaging on the OLD site itself is promising, I offer my phone number and a phone call. If that goes well, I offer a "friend" request on Facebook. If they get through the "Facebook" stage, it's on like Donkey Kong. Plus, "shopping" on-line is fun. Kind of eye-opening, too.kraytkiller said:Not saying field gaming isn't better than OLD, but on OLD it's fairly easy to see if they will look like their pictures or not, or if they are fat or not, through some various methods of deciphering photographs.
Of course you can always be tricked by a collection of fake photos. However in my experience, this is extremely rare.
Being afraid of bad results is not a reason to not use OLD.
Being afraid of going out and hitting on girls irl is not a good reason to strictly use OLD.
OLD is simply another tool to use to bump up your numbers and chances.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
In your age group (ive been reading your sutff) I wouldn't advise it. That's just the bottom of the barrel.yannick43 said:No its not, online dating is a total lie, all women i met online never looked like there picture, plus they are all shallow, even if they are fat ugly below average looking women.
OLD is the worst place to meet women, because there are close to 30 men for 1 women, huge waist of time, energy etc.
Also depending the age group i am older there are almost all single moms with 2 kids full time, fukk that
The MAJOR key to "success" with OLD is to not only be very photogenic but to show off your physique and work out like you do.guru1000 said:I've banged over 100 girls online in my life; 35+ this year alone between 24-34 yos, HB7s-8.5s. I don't find too many 9s online; that's where real-life dating comes into play.
If I were after a quick lay online with a 7-8.5, I could schedule a double-header for the same night, same location, same time; pick the better of the two, and blow off the other one. I did this tonight, unfortunately the better of the two didn't want to bang tonight, so I walked out on her, lol.
You could probably make a write up on online game guru...guru1000 said:I've banged over 100 girls online in my life; 35+ this year alone between 24-34 yos, HB7s-8.5s. I don't find too many 9s online; that's where real-life dating comes into play.
If I were after a quick lay online with a 7-8.5, I could schedule a double-header for the same night, same location, same time; pick the better of the two, and blow off the other one. I did this tonight, unfortunately the better of the two didn't want to bang tonight, so I walked out on her, lol.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
DaddyLongShanks said:You could probably make a write up on online game guru...
I agree.kraytkiller said:Not saying field gaming isn't better than OLD, but on OLD it's fairly easy to see if they will look like their pictures or not, or if they are fat or not, through some various methods of deciphering photographs.
Of course you can always be tricked by a collection of fake photos. However in my experience, this is extremely rare.
Being afraid of bad results is not a reason to not use OLD.
Being afraid of going out and hitting on girls irl is not a good reason to strictly use OLD.
OLD is simply another tool to use to bump up your numbers and chances.