You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Precisely my experience. It's just a pool of potential matches. I've had very good success with OLD. If messaging on the OLD site itself is promising, I offer my phone number and a phone call. If that goes well, I offer a "friend" request on Facebook. If they get through the "Facebook" stage, it's on like Donkey Kong. Plus, "shopping" on-line is fun. Kind of eye-opening, too.kraytkiller said:Not saying field gaming isn't better than OLD, but on OLD it's fairly easy to see if they will look like their pictures or not, or if they are fat or not, through some various methods of deciphering photographs.
Of course you can always be tricked by a collection of fake photos. However in my experience, this is extremely rare.
Being afraid of bad results is not a reason to not use OLD.
Being afraid of going out and hitting on girls irl is not a good reason to strictly use OLD.
OLD is simply another tool to use to bump up your numbers and chances.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
In your age group (ive been reading your sutff) I wouldn't advise it. That's just the bottom of the barrel.yannick43 said:No its not, online dating is a total lie, all women i met online never looked like there picture, plus they are all shallow, even if they are fat ugly below average looking women.
OLD is the worst place to meet women, because there are close to 30 men for 1 women, huge waist of time, energy etc.
Also depending the age group i am older there are almost all single moms with 2 kids full time, fukk that
The MAJOR key to "success" with OLD is to not only be very photogenic but to show off your physique and work out like you do.guru1000 said:I've banged over 100 girls online in my life; 35+ this year alone between 24-34 yos, HB7s-8.5s. I don't find too many 9s online; that's where real-life dating comes into play.
If I were after a quick lay online with a 7-8.5, I could schedule a double-header for the same night, same location, same time; pick the better of the two, and blow off the other one. I did this tonight, unfortunately the better of the two didn't want to bang tonight, so I walked out on her, lol.
You could probably make a write up on online game guru...guru1000 said:I've banged over 100 girls online in my life; 35+ this year alone between 24-34 yos, HB7s-8.5s. I don't find too many 9s online; that's where real-life dating comes into play.
If I were after a quick lay online with a 7-8.5, I could schedule a double-header for the same night, same location, same time; pick the better of the two, and blow off the other one. I did this tonight, unfortunately the better of the two didn't want to bang tonight, so I walked out on her, lol.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
DaddyLongShanks said:You could probably make a write up on online game guru...
I agree.kraytkiller said:Not saying field gaming isn't better than OLD, but on OLD it's fairly easy to see if they will look like their pictures or not, or if they are fat or not, through some various methods of deciphering photographs.
Of course you can always be tricked by a collection of fake photos. However in my experience, this is extremely rare.
Being afraid of bad results is not a reason to not use OLD.
Being afraid of going out and hitting on girls irl is not a good reason to strictly use OLD.
OLD is simply another tool to use to bump up your numbers and chances.