You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Precisely my experience. It's just a pool of potential matches. I've had very good success with OLD. If messaging on the OLD site itself is promising, I offer my phone number and a phone call. If that goes well, I offer a "friend" request on Facebook. If they get through the "Facebook" stage, it's on like Donkey Kong. Plus, "shopping" on-line is fun. Kind of eye-opening, too.kraytkiller said:Not saying field gaming isn't better than OLD, but on OLD it's fairly easy to see if they will look like their pictures or not, or if they are fat or not, through some various methods of deciphering photographs.
Of course you can always be tricked by a collection of fake photos. However in my experience, this is extremely rare.
Being afraid of bad results is not a reason to not use OLD.
Being afraid of going out and hitting on girls irl is not a good reason to strictly use OLD.
OLD is simply another tool to use to bump up your numbers and chances.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
In your age group (ive been reading your sutff) I wouldn't advise it. That's just the bottom of the barrel.yannick43 said:No its not, online dating is a total lie, all women i met online never looked like there picture, plus they are all shallow, even if they are fat ugly below average looking women.
OLD is the worst place to meet women, because there are close to 30 men for 1 women, huge waist of time, energy etc.
Also depending the age group i am older there are almost all single moms with 2 kids full time, fukk that
The MAJOR key to "success" with OLD is to not only be very photogenic but to show off your physique and work out like you do.guru1000 said:I've banged over 100 girls online in my life; 35+ this year alone between 24-34 yos, HB7s-8.5s. I don't find too many 9s online; that's where real-life dating comes into play.
If I were after a quick lay online with a 7-8.5, I could schedule a double-header for the same night, same location, same time; pick the better of the two, and blow off the other one. I did this tonight, unfortunately the better of the two didn't want to bang tonight, so I walked out on her, lol.
You could probably make a write up on online game guru...guru1000 said:I've banged over 100 girls online in my life; 35+ this year alone between 24-34 yos, HB7s-8.5s. I don't find too many 9s online; that's where real-life dating comes into play.
If I were after a quick lay online with a 7-8.5, I could schedule a double-header for the same night, same location, same time; pick the better of the two, and blow off the other one. I did this tonight, unfortunately the better of the two didn't want to bang tonight, so I walked out on her, lol.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
DaddyLongShanks said:You could probably make a write up on online game guru...
I agree.kraytkiller said:Not saying field gaming isn't better than OLD, but on OLD it's fairly easy to see if they will look like their pictures or not, or if they are fat or not, through some various methods of deciphering photographs.
Of course you can always be tricked by a collection of fake photos. However in my experience, this is extremely rare.
Being afraid of bad results is not a reason to not use OLD.
Being afraid of going out and hitting on girls irl is not a good reason to strictly use OLD.
OLD is simply another tool to use to bump up your numbers and chances.