“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Online Dating vs. Bars

Dhoulmagus

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If you are very good looking you should be on OLD all the time.

To me OLD and bars are the same thing. Lots of faggots competing for a woman's attention. Most of the time the women aren't even cute.
I've gotten 3 gfs off of tinder, but I don't consider myself good looking.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

Roni_88

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That's a good thought around it, but I'm tackling the point on online dating pretty much being average girls getting hit on by a ton of good looking guys,
You are again concentrating on other factors/people than yourself, what you can only control os your attitude, everythong is else subjective and you just have to give your best. Change things around or the heck get better at offline dating, it has other advantages.
 

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You are again concentrating on other factors/people than yourself, what you can only control os your attitude, everythong is else subjective and you just have to give your best. Change things around or the heck get better at offline dating, it has other advantages.
That doesn't change anything. The argument against online dating is that below average girls are swarmed by guys in a heart beat. I have been to bars where the exact same **** happened to a below average looking girl. There's really no difference besides OLD being low effort and low energy than bars. I'm not saying your tactic is wrong, but I'm just arguing against the con of OLD.
 

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Good!

Whether it's a bar, or online, I EXPECT competition, but I NEVER want to let it keep me from pursuing the goal.

When there's no competition, there are probably no good-looking chicks to be had.
I embrace competition and enjoy the women that are competed for out there by the herd. Easy, turnkey, or women with fewer options don't interest me or hold my interest.

I appreciate women that have a little bit of umphh and then knocking them down a few notches.
 
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