"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Online Dating vs. Bars

Dhoulmagus

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If you are very good looking you should be on OLD all the time.

To me OLD and bars are the same thing. Lots of faggots competing for a woman's attention. Most of the time the women aren't even cute.
I've gotten 3 gfs off of tinder, but I don't consider myself good looking.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Roni_88

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That's a good thought around it, but I'm tackling the point on online dating pretty much being average girls getting hit on by a ton of good looking guys,
You are again concentrating on other factors/people than yourself, what you can only control os your attitude, everythong is else subjective and you just have to give your best. Change things around or the heck get better at offline dating, it has other advantages.
 

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You are again concentrating on other factors/people than yourself, what you can only control os your attitude, everythong is else subjective and you just have to give your best. Change things around or the heck get better at offline dating, it has other advantages.
That doesn't change anything. The argument against online dating is that below average girls are swarmed by guys in a heart beat. I have been to bars where the exact same **** happened to a below average looking girl. There's really no difference besides OLD being low effort and low energy than bars. I'm not saying your tactic is wrong, but I'm just arguing against the con of OLD.
 

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Good!

Whether it's a bar, or online, I EXPECT competition, but I NEVER want to let it keep me from pursuing the goal.

When there's no competition, there are probably no good-looking chicks to be had.
I embrace competition and enjoy the women that are competed for out there by the herd. Easy, turnkey, or women with fewer options don't interest me or hold my interest.

I appreciate women that have a little bit of umphh and then knocking them down a few notches.
 
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