"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Online dating trick?

RickTheToad

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I used to only login once a day, but I never received many likes, winks or interests. I thought it was interesting that after I logged in, I'd receive the most likes, winks or interests. So for the last couple of days I left the match app open on my ipad that I rarely use. Would you believe my likes, views and interests are coming in all the time now.

Anyone else notice this? Some really hot ones. Though, some of the hot ones have kids, so they are disqualified. Others were attractive enough for me to open up to chat for tomorrow.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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marmel75

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If you are trying to get laid why would you disqualify women with kids? Does it get any more obvious that they put out?
 

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If you are trying to get laid why would you disqualify women with kids? Does it get any more obvious that they put out?
Had a real bad experience with a single mom years ago. Though, you are right, she was easy to fvck by the second date. I think she wanted to fvck on the first date, as her kid was with her dad. Though, I was really green. I have now sixteen "interests or likes" since yesterday's profile and pic update. Four of them, which are the most attractive, have kids. I have enough drama in my life.
 

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Are you currently paying for a match membership?
If not, then this is something programmed in the algorithm that rotates you near the top 10 per day.
They want your business badly.
Paid members get shuffled around the top 100 weekly.
That's why you get less winks or emails after you've paid.
 
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