"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Online dating trick?

RickTheToad

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I used to only login once a day, but I never received many likes, winks or interests. I thought it was interesting that after I logged in, I'd receive the most likes, winks or interests. So for the last couple of days I left the match app open on my ipad that I rarely use. Would you believe my likes, views and interests are coming in all the time now.

Anyone else notice this? Some really hot ones. Though, some of the hot ones have kids, so they are disqualified. Others were attractive enough for me to open up to chat for tomorrow.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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marmel75

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If you are trying to get laid why would you disqualify women with kids? Does it get any more obvious that they put out?
 

RickTheToad

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If you are trying to get laid why would you disqualify women with kids? Does it get any more obvious that they put out?
Had a real bad experience with a single mom years ago. Though, you are right, she was easy to fvck by the second date. I think she wanted to fvck on the first date, as her kid was with her dad. Though, I was really green. I have now sixteen "interests or likes" since yesterday's profile and pic update. Four of them, which are the most attractive, have kids. I have enough drama in my life.
 

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Are you currently paying for a match membership?
If not, then this is something programmed in the algorithm that rotates you near the top 10 per day.
They want your business badly.
Paid members get shuffled around the top 100 weekly.
That's why you get less winks or emails after you've paid.
 
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