"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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online dating sites. tinder. .pof....are for the less inclined

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There's nothing u know about some pics and some words....I tried tinder...not into it.
I have more self worth and I would rather spend my half hour doing abs then looking at average chicks lol....

You guys on here that go on about that lifestyle are not fooling anyone..... Its all cold approaches.

Ever since grade school... The ballsy kids made friends...the inter web fucjed some of us up.

It was always cold approach...that's what makes it so sweet.

Ur denying urself the sweet juice...



So that being said...


For the ugly guys...the fatties... The skinny...the balding...etc....

Women only care how you make them feel.


All women...the hot ones have a fat dude cuz he makes her feel that way...don't hate.

They just want to feel that certain way.

If you can't do it....sorry to tell you that looking to a website won't help you. Its not in your character... And the truth to life is we are all not going to make it past a certain stage.

And the dudes who don't make the cut should stop posting about "how can I...or what do I do"...

You already lost.


Leave this forum to real life and examples is my point.

Read the literature... Get some real world action... Not just 8 dates..and she didn't text me....ARE YOU SERIOUS...

Let's make this site about how you behave after the bull crap.

The literature works fellas...if u believe it.

Otherwise I'm just reading *****ing.

P.s.
That's my last ***** post.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Summary:

"I had no luck with online dating websites or dating apps, so I'm going to put down people who choose to use technology to their dating benefit."
 

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A real approach when ur shaking nervous talking to ur goddess and she smiles back is what its all about.

You can keep ur online stuff..

Thats my point....

My side point is...negative minded people will find each other. If ur thinking that online is the way...then...I can't talk to you because I have something that you don't.

Probably more gaylan....so can you try to post something positive to my post....or don't post anything at all.
 

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Social circle > cold approach > dating websites. If a girl sees me in my social circles her panties will drop
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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You actually believe a picture and some words on a screen?

How that is even an option for you?

Go read 50 shades of gray.
 

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Social circle is easy!

Cold approach just means balls.

It means you go after your sport... Your job...your style..your body... And yes.. Your stupid girl who will make you happy.
Which is how ur great great great great great other self made ur ASS
....if u can't do it how they did it naturally... Don't respond to my words..
 

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Talk to me when u lost ur legs and still pulling chicks.... Don't talk to me when u can't make it in the most diverse parts of the earth.

Actually... Just don't respond to me.
 

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_sideways_ said:
P.s.
That's my last ***** post.
^
says the guy who made 5 more posts after.

_sideways_ said:
Women only care how you make them feel.

All women...the hot ones have a fat dude cuz he makes her feel that way...don't hate.
Yeah, every hot girl has a fat dude she fvcks. You couldn't get the ugly girls online so you say this. If you can't get the ugly girls online, you won't get them cold approaching either. How is online dating not real life? People are taking time out of their real life to go online doing real life activities. When you meet them, it is real life meetings.
 

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It's telling how a full two-thirds of the posts in this thread were by the OP trying to convince us -- or himself -- that online dating is bad. I'd bet money that this kind of needy behaviour is why you failed at it.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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