"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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online dating sites. tinder. .pof....are for the less inclined

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There's nothing u know about some pics and some words....I tried tinder...not into it.
I have more self worth and I would rather spend my half hour doing abs then looking at average chicks lol....

You guys on here that go on about that lifestyle are not fooling anyone..... Its all cold approaches.

Ever since grade school... The ballsy kids made friends...the inter web fucjed some of us up.

It was always cold approach...that's what makes it so sweet.

Ur denying urself the sweet juice...



So that being said...


For the ugly guys...the fatties... The skinny...the balding...etc....

Women only care how you make them feel.


All women...the hot ones have a fat dude cuz he makes her feel that way...don't hate.

They just want to feel that certain way.

If you can't do it....sorry to tell you that looking to a website won't help you. Its not in your character... And the truth to life is we are all not going to make it past a certain stage.

And the dudes who don't make the cut should stop posting about "how can I...or what do I do"...

You already lost.


Leave this forum to real life and examples is my point.

Read the literature... Get some real world action... Not just 8 dates..and she didn't text me....ARE YOU SERIOUS...

Let's make this site about how you behave after the bull crap.

The literature works fellas...if u believe it.

Otherwise I'm just reading *****ing.

P.s.
That's my last ***** post.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Summary:

"I had no luck with online dating websites or dating apps, so I'm going to put down people who choose to use technology to their dating benefit."
 

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A real approach when ur shaking nervous talking to ur goddess and she smiles back is what its all about.

You can keep ur online stuff..

Thats my point....

My side point is...negative minded people will find each other. If ur thinking that online is the way...then...I can't talk to you because I have something that you don't.

Probably more gaylan....so can you try to post something positive to my post....or don't post anything at all.
 

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Social circle > cold approach > dating websites. If a girl sees me in my social circles her panties will drop
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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You actually believe a picture and some words on a screen?

How that is even an option for you?

Go read 50 shades of gray.
 

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Social circle is easy!

Cold approach just means balls.

It means you go after your sport... Your job...your style..your body... And yes.. Your stupid girl who will make you happy.
Which is how ur great great great great great other self made ur ASS
....if u can't do it how they did it naturally... Don't respond to my words..
 

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Talk to me when u lost ur legs and still pulling chicks.... Don't talk to me when u can't make it in the most diverse parts of the earth.

Actually... Just don't respond to me.
 

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_sideways_ said:
P.s.
That's my last ***** post.
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says the guy who made 5 more posts after.

_sideways_ said:
Women only care how you make them feel.

All women...the hot ones have a fat dude cuz he makes her feel that way...don't hate.
Yeah, every hot girl has a fat dude she fvcks. You couldn't get the ugly girls online so you say this. If you can't get the ugly girls online, you won't get them cold approaching either. How is online dating not real life? People are taking time out of their real life to go online doing real life activities. When you meet them, it is real life meetings.
 

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It's telling how a full two-thirds of the posts in this thread were by the OP trying to convince us -- or himself -- that online dating is bad. I'd bet money that this kind of needy behaviour is why you failed at it.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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