"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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online dating sites. tinder. .pof....are for the less inclined

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There's nothing u know about some pics and some words....I tried tinder...not into it.
I have more self worth and I would rather spend my half hour doing abs then looking at average chicks lol....

You guys on here that go on about that lifestyle are not fooling anyone..... Its all cold approaches.

Ever since grade school... The ballsy kids made friends...the inter web fucjed some of us up.

It was always cold approach...that's what makes it so sweet.

Ur denying urself the sweet juice...



So that being said...


For the ugly guys...the fatties... The skinny...the balding...etc....

Women only care how you make them feel.


All women...the hot ones have a fat dude cuz he makes her feel that way...don't hate.

They just want to feel that certain way.

If you can't do it....sorry to tell you that looking to a website won't help you. Its not in your character... And the truth to life is we are all not going to make it past a certain stage.

And the dudes who don't make the cut should stop posting about "how can I...or what do I do"...

You already lost.


Leave this forum to real life and examples is my point.

Read the literature... Get some real world action... Not just 8 dates..and she didn't text me....ARE YOU SERIOUS...

Let's make this site about how you behave after the bull crap.

The literature works fellas...if u believe it.

Otherwise I'm just reading *****ing.

P.s.
That's my last ***** post.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Summary:

"I had no luck with online dating websites or dating apps, so I'm going to put down people who choose to use technology to their dating benefit."
 

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A real approach when ur shaking nervous talking to ur goddess and she smiles back is what its all about.

You can keep ur online stuff..

Thats my point....

My side point is...negative minded people will find each other. If ur thinking that online is the way...then...I can't talk to you because I have something that you don't.

Probably more gaylan....so can you try to post something positive to my post....or don't post anything at all.
 

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Social circle > cold approach > dating websites. If a girl sees me in my social circles her panties will drop
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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You actually believe a picture and some words on a screen?

How that is even an option for you?

Go read 50 shades of gray.
 

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Social circle is easy!

Cold approach just means balls.

It means you go after your sport... Your job...your style..your body... And yes.. Your stupid girl who will make you happy.
Which is how ur great great great great great other self made ur ASS
....if u can't do it how they did it naturally... Don't respond to my words..
 

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Talk to me when u lost ur legs and still pulling chicks.... Don't talk to me when u can't make it in the most diverse parts of the earth.

Actually... Just don't respond to me.
 

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_sideways_ said:
P.s.
That's my last ***** post.
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says the guy who made 5 more posts after.

_sideways_ said:
Women only care how you make them feel.

All women...the hot ones have a fat dude cuz he makes her feel that way...don't hate.
Yeah, every hot girl has a fat dude she fvcks. You couldn't get the ugly girls online so you say this. If you can't get the ugly girls online, you won't get them cold approaching either. How is online dating not real life? People are taking time out of their real life to go online doing real life activities. When you meet them, it is real life meetings.
 

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It's telling how a full two-thirds of the posts in this thread were by the OP trying to convince us -- or himself -- that online dating is bad. I'd bet money that this kind of needy behaviour is why you failed at it.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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