"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Online dating - Opening email

DJArlington

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Guys,

I am trying to compose an email to a girl I have found online. What are some examples of an opening email? What are some examples of ****y/funny lines?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Dr Don Juan

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"I was wondering whether I should e-mail you, since i'm not sure if you are a stalker or not (I hate when that happens to me :), and decided I will, simply because i'm going to lock all my doors so that you can't get in and take advantage of me while I sleep *naughty grin*"

What do you guys think?
 

Dr Don Juan

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"I was wondering whether I should e-mail you, since i'm not sure if you are a stalker or not (I hate when that happens to me :), and decided I will, simply because i'm going to lock all my doors so that you can't get in and take advantage of me while I sleep *naught grin*"

What do you guys think?
 

Dr Don Juan

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Damn...sorry about the double post gents
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Personally, I'd stay away from other people's lines no matter how good they are. The problem is that if it doesn't fit your personality, you'll come off like a AFC when you meet her. You need to have you face to face game on high to be able to handle online dating.

Take a look at this site. It show's exactly what NOT to do plus a couple of cool examples. Way Too Personal (Online Ad Responses)
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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