Seconded, OLD is just another tool, not a whole dating/meeting plan. If there are no good looking women in one's OLD pool, by all means don't use it. There are many 8-10s doing it in my neck of the woods. One thing I think these naysayers don't realize is that the sites, match anyway, force the less popular women on you in basic searches. You have to learn how to really focus and use the database to unearth many of the hotter profiles. Getting oneself to the top of the stack with a 9-10 woman who is getting 200 messages a day is a great feeling, and once you do that and can repeat it, OLD can be an incredible tool to enhance the quality of one's "bucket" (I think it's called "plates" here).Solomon said:
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Online Dating not for DJs
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