Seconded, OLD is just another tool, not a whole dating/meeting plan. If there are no good looking women in one's OLD pool, by all means don't use it. There are many 8-10s doing it in my neck of the woods. One thing I think these naysayers don't realize is that the sites, match anyway, force the less popular women on you in basic searches. You have to learn how to really focus and use the database to unearth many of the hotter profiles. Getting oneself to the top of the stack with a 9-10 woman who is getting 200 messages a day is a great feeling, and once you do that and can repeat it, OLD can be an incredible tool to enhance the quality of one's "bucket" (I think it's called "plates" here).Solomon said:
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Online Dating not for DJs
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