"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Online dating no longer a supplmental

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Was talking to a female friend of mine, we both live in a smaller city that's about an hour drive from the closest BIG city. I typically don't have qualms going to the big city to meet people, socially, dating, etc. but...she avoids the city like the plague. She can't stand it.

Now many people have admitted that to use OLD dating as a supplemental to real life socializing, but in her case, when I told her that there's not much going around here as this is mostly a family-based community, there's no "chance" of meeting an available person...well, that at least has all their teeth. lol. When you go out, it's mostly families and couples at county fairs, art festivals, or whatevevr small town community event that's going on.

There's no approaching a woman in public, because she already has a wedding band on. Things like that.

She finally said, "Well, I guess it's back to online dating then."

I think this explains a lot of the same spinsters I keep seeing year after year, locally that's never responded to me. lol. They remain permanent fixtures of the site.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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