"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Online Dating...How To Make Sure The Chick In The Pic, Is The Chick You'll Meet

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I went into the achieves and dug up this old thread. This is actually in response to another post from SoCal Mike. Mike was talking about how the chick he met in real life wasn't the chick in the pic. I hope you guys find this helpful. I went into the achieves and dug up this old thread.

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I was talking to my boy the other day about how the Net has revolutionized dating. At the click of a mouse you have literally thousands of available singles to hook up with. The downside is as with all aspects of life people embellish and straight up lie about things. The following is just a little advice on how to much sure the person in the pic is the person you will eventually meet.

WEBCAMS!!! HAVE THEM AND USE THEM. If you using online dating services. You shouldn't even give a chick the time of day unless they have a webcam. Webcams elimate all the guess work as old, and stolen pictures are concerned. There you have right in front of you, in living (grainy) color the chick in the picture. You can even have her stand up and do a 360 to make sure she's not fat.

Though some of us will still response to ad of the hot chick in the pic. Here's some ways to make sure there's no "bait and switch," being pulled.

You see an ad with a picture of this "off the dial" chick. She's easily a 9. She's in a two piece bathing suit. She's cute chesty, and appears to have a nice a$$. Here's the catch, the picture is two years old and she's since gained 35lbs. To remedy this problem, use what I call the "Kidnapper/Terroist" Method.

When a kidnapper or terrorist takes a hostage, the negotiators will want proof that the hostage is still alive. The aductors will then have the aductee take a picture with that day's paper. You should do the same. Have your potential date, go out to a newsstand or Barnes and Noble and take a picture with current periodical. That day's paper or the current issue of a magazine will do. Make sure when babygirl takes the picture she's standing up without a coat on.

Some will say "But Rex isn't that a little extreme." Maybe, but I think that trying to pass yourself off as someone else is more exetrme than that. As matter of fact saying your someone your not shows mental illness on your part.

Let's face facts. A big part of the reason you responsed to the ad is you found the person in the picture attractive. It's only right that you meet the person you wrote to. If looks weren't that important, you would've repsonded to the ad without the picture.

To recap, no recent picture, no chat, and definitely no date.

Here's a few code words to let you when a woman is fat:
Big Beautiful Woman (BBW) If a woman is using this term, not only is fat, she's probably obese.

Big girl=Very fat, probably obese

Big Bone=Fat

Pleasantly Plump=Fat
Chunky=Fat

Chubby=Fat

A little extra padding=Fat or she has a roll or two and could stand to drop about 15 to 30 lbs.

Thick in the right places. She probably does have big titties, and a big a$$, but probably has rolls, cellulite on her legs and a$$ and may have a pouch.

These next two, it saddens me to have to add them to the list. These were once legitimate terms to describe buxom, curvey, big a$$ havin women. These terms have since been hijacked by fat chicks.

Thick=Fat
Voluptuous=Fat.

Another tatic employed by fat chicks is she'll tell you her breast or hip size without telling you her height, weight, or waist size . For example, she'll say she has 38DD's. Being 5'4", 180lbs, with a size 38 waist , kinda negates having a 36 hip size and 38DD's.

Also be learly of pictures with just a "headshot," those baring clevage, or those where babygirl is photographed from the chest up. She may be hiding something. Ask for a picture of her standing up, with a form fitting top, or a dress or skirt on.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Another tatic employed by fat chicks is she'll tell you her breast or hip size without telling you her height, weight, or waist size . For example, she'll say she has 38DD's. Being 5'4", 180lbs, with a size 38 waist , kinda negates having a 36 hip size and 38DD's.

Also be learly of pictures with just a "headshot," those baring clevage, or those where babygirl is photographed from the chest up. She may be hiding something. Ask for a picture of her standing up, with a form fitting top, or a dress or skirt on.
All of this is very true. Also, another tell tale sign are their hands. Pork sausage link like fingers are a dead giveaway for zaftig women. Oh yeah, when they describe themselves as "zaftig" is another sign. :p

Personally I've skipped gears and started hanging out at a fitness based dating site (fitnesssingles.com). Some of the women on there are hardcore but not in a scary bend you over a chair way (yikes) but I've met a couple of cougars that that actually look younger than I am!!!
 
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