"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Online dating: How to make initial contact with woman explicitly seeking sex?

asskickery777

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Hey guys, this is for the PUAs here that have experience with online dating.

I've recently given it a shot with mild success to supplement my day game.

When I make first contact through email with a woman seeking "dating," I just talk to her casually before asking for her number to get to know her better.

But, how would I made first contact with a woman explicitly seeking sex? What do I write about?

Do I try some innuendos right off the bat, or do I just start off normally like women just seeking "dating?"

C&F, neg hits, etc. never work over the internet, it always makes you come off as an *******, because you have no control over tonality, body language, facial expression, etc.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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apusislaya

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hey man, I'm a virgin.


though I do online dating. By accident I happened to set myspace profile to 18 female and added a hot pic. Messages every minute, friend requests every 5 minutes. Guys with same shyt. In no time I developed preconceived notions about dudes and stopped answering all e-mails. So that helped me to get why women are so rude and not always reply. With my thing I don't message them, I let them message me.

If I come across something hot, like I'm 27, and I see a 47 year old milf view me, no contact, I message :) smiley face.. If she wants to know me she'll reply with something.

I don't know man, I'm a virgin like I said. But I think it's all about AIs. Approaching or contacting a woman without AIs is a game with chances against you. My virgin advice to you is to create a female sex seeking profile with a hot girl in it, and see what makes you run.
 

nightcrawler

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asskickery777 said:
Hey guys, this is for the PUAs here that have experience with online dating.

I've recently given it a shot with mild success to supplement my day game.

When I make first contact through email with a woman seeking "dating," I just talk to her casually before asking for her number to get to know her better.

But, how would I made first contact with a woman explicitly seeking sex? What do I write about?

Do I try some innuendos right off the bat, or do I just start off normally like women just seeking "dating?"

C&F, neg hits, etc. never work over the internet, it always makes you come off as an *******, because you have no control over tonality, body language, facial expression, etc.
Have a great physique.

she's looking for nsa, mindblowing sex, not a boyfriend.
 

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WOW..............BAD ADVICE IS LIKE MASTURBATION......should be kept private and only the posters of said advice enjoy it.

SEX SITES are similar to most other dating sites as far as emailing is concerned.

GUARANTEED TO GET REJECTED IS TO START OFF BEING OVERTLY SEXUAL. Ya I know she is on a sex site, I know she posted naked pictures and yes she even wrote nasty stuff in her profile. Will she respond to sex talk..........not online.

The key to emails on a sex site is to GET THIS, ARE YOUR READY.............BE NON SEXUAL. I know sounds counter-intuitive, does not make sense.........but you will do a lot better being cool, nice, polite, etc.

C & F AND neg hits, etc DOES work online but requires some skill.

Purpose of an email is to get her IM name............then after some rapport hit her up for her digits.

SEX sites are a magnet for every sexual deviate out there and trust me ladies have their pick and one thing that I hear OVER AND OVER AGAIN.........HE IS A PIG, TOO SEXUAL, just interested in sex, etc.

Don't worry once you got her instant messaging you can inject a few innuendo's.

so recap.................

EMAIL-RESPONSE-IM-DIGITS-CALL HER.

Your email should not contain anything sexual...........playfully challenging.

These sites are a little harder to see success but persistance does pay off.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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