"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Online dating: How to make initial contact with woman explicitly seeking sex?

asskickery777

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Hey guys, this is for the PUAs here that have experience with online dating.

I've recently given it a shot with mild success to supplement my day game.

When I make first contact through email with a woman seeking "dating," I just talk to her casually before asking for her number to get to know her better.

But, how would I made first contact with a woman explicitly seeking sex? What do I write about?

Do I try some innuendos right off the bat, or do I just start off normally like women just seeking "dating?"

C&F, neg hits, etc. never work over the internet, it always makes you come off as an *******, because you have no control over tonality, body language, facial expression, etc.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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apusislaya

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hey man, I'm a virgin.


though I do online dating. By accident I happened to set myspace profile to 18 female and added a hot pic. Messages every minute, friend requests every 5 minutes. Guys with same shyt. In no time I developed preconceived notions about dudes and stopped answering all e-mails. So that helped me to get why women are so rude and not always reply. With my thing I don't message them, I let them message me.

If I come across something hot, like I'm 27, and I see a 47 year old milf view me, no contact, I message :) smiley face.. If she wants to know me she'll reply with something.

I don't know man, I'm a virgin like I said. But I think it's all about AIs. Approaching or contacting a woman without AIs is a game with chances against you. My virgin advice to you is to create a female sex seeking profile with a hot girl in it, and see what makes you run.
 

nightcrawler

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asskickery777 said:
Hey guys, this is for the PUAs here that have experience with online dating.

I've recently given it a shot with mild success to supplement my day game.

When I make first contact through email with a woman seeking "dating," I just talk to her casually before asking for her number to get to know her better.

But, how would I made first contact with a woman explicitly seeking sex? What do I write about?

Do I try some innuendos right off the bat, or do I just start off normally like women just seeking "dating?"

C&F, neg hits, etc. never work over the internet, it always makes you come off as an *******, because you have no control over tonality, body language, facial expression, etc.
Have a great physique.

she's looking for nsa, mindblowing sex, not a boyfriend.
 

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WOW..............BAD ADVICE IS LIKE MASTURBATION......should be kept private and only the posters of said advice enjoy it.

SEX SITES are similar to most other dating sites as far as emailing is concerned.

GUARANTEED TO GET REJECTED IS TO START OFF BEING OVERTLY SEXUAL. Ya I know she is on a sex site, I know she posted naked pictures and yes she even wrote nasty stuff in her profile. Will she respond to sex talk..........not online.

The key to emails on a sex site is to GET THIS, ARE YOUR READY.............BE NON SEXUAL. I know sounds counter-intuitive, does not make sense.........but you will do a lot better being cool, nice, polite, etc.

C & F AND neg hits, etc DOES work online but requires some skill.

Purpose of an email is to get her IM name............then after some rapport hit her up for her digits.

SEX sites are a magnet for every sexual deviate out there and trust me ladies have their pick and one thing that I hear OVER AND OVER AGAIN.........HE IS A PIG, TOO SEXUAL, just interested in sex, etc.

Don't worry once you got her instant messaging you can inject a few innuendo's.

so recap.................

EMAIL-RESPONSE-IM-DIGITS-CALL HER.

Your email should not contain anything sexual...........playfully challenging.

These sites are a little harder to see success but persistance does pay off.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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