"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Of course you did! That poor girl doesn't know the mistake she's about to make.
I hope her family's part of the mob cuz I sure wanna go Tony Sopranos on Dave sometimes.
Dude she wants to get in shape herself very badly. She told me she hates her body

Right now, she doesn't know what the **** she is doing as far as diet/training. I'll teach her what to do and she will get the pornstar body that she herself wants

Everything else is awesome. She is super chill and very interested in me. We'll get along like best friends in real life too
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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OK fine. I shouldn't give you sh*t because this is the most "progress" you've made so far.

We'll get along like best friends in real life too
But don't give her a friendship vibe or she'll write you off as a friend or that nice guy who'll never make a move on her.
 

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OK fine. I shouldn't give you sh*t because this is the most "progress" you've made so far.



But don't give her a friendship vibe or she'll write you off as a friend or that nice guy who'll never make a move on her.
I'm very attracted to her and I'm sure she is very attracted to me + I look much better in real life than pics

We'll be banging like rabbits in a week or two
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Dude she wants to get in shape herself very badly. She told me she hates her body

Right now, she doesn't know what the **** she is doing as far as diet/training. I'll teach her what to do and she will get the pornstar body that she herself wants

Everything else is awesome. She is super chill and very interested in me. We'll get along like best friends in real life too
Fvck her before you help her or be her therepist. You will work you way out the puszy if you dont.
 
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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bigdave17

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is it a bad idea to have date 1 and date 2 on back to back days?

I want to see her friday and saturday
 

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is it a bad idea to have date 1 and date 2 on back to back days?

I want to see her friday and saturday
It's fine if she wants to do that, but i suggest going on date 1 and making sure she loves it first
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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You guys crack me up
 

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she texted me today that she's really looking forward to seeing me

awwww she's awfully sweet
So leave the energy like that. Thrres nothing more you csn say to raise it higher. Have opportunities plural for sex to occur. Smell good look sexual when she sees you.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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