"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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KindredSpiritzz

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I have used OLD almost exclusively in the past 5 years and do great.
me as well. POF, Tinder, Bumble and Hot or Not. A few dry spells but more often than not theres is always something in the hopper.
Good pictures and a good profile are a must unless you look like Brad Pitt.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Young OG

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Hi
I am quiet new in this. Recently i decided to use apps to help me with meeting new girls due to covid going out is nearly impossible. After 2 weeks of using (tinder, badoo, bumble and happen) I literally got nothing. I read how to optimize profiles to be more attrsctive etc. Hard for me to judge my own appearance but anyways i thought its going to be easier.
Do you have any tips or similar experiences?
I live in UK
Try using Facebook Dating and Hinge. Those are the best two apps right now.

Get some professional pictures taken. Preferably outside because studio shots look too try hard. Pictures are the most important thing on your profile. They will literally make you or break you.

Use an opener that is a funny open ended question. Don't ever open with "Hey" or "Hi." If you have a good career then make sure you list your job title on your profile.

Try to keep the back and forth to under 10 messages and then ask her to get a drink with you. Once she says yes, then get her number.

I hope these tips help. I can't stress enough about how important the pictures and the opener are.
 

BackInTheGame78

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me as well. POF, Tinder, Bumble and Hot or Not. A few dry spells but more often than not theres is always something in the hopper.
Good pictures and a good profile are a must unless you look like Brad Pitt.
Yup. Women read profiles whether the "it's all about pics" crew wants to admit it or not. And it matters.
 

Solomon

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OLD is a lot tougher right now, women don't want to meet it up
If you do meet than yeah it's easier to smash (depending on where you live, I live in a state with restrictions so women come over)
It's a lot of work/effort and honestly to me it's not worth it, im focused on stacking my money and getting in shape (put on damn near 20 pounds since June)
 
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