Online dating - Approach Science

[like2jam]

So, after trying a variety of tactics or message approaches to see what works and what doesn't.

I sent the following message to fairly attractive mid 30's woman:

Me: Question. Does it really matter what a guy says to you? I mean, let's face it, if you're not attracted, you're gonna skip over him like a pothole. If you're really attracted, almost anything that isn't insulting, stupid or mean would do the trick. Agreed?

Her: Agreed.

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Discuss

 

[TillTheEndOfTime]

100% true. I've been saying so for as long as I have been commenting on posts about "witty" profiles or openers.

Bottom line, you send a message and she immediately looks at your profile. Attractive? She responds. Not attractive? She ignores and deletes.

Pretty simple. Game is irrelevant online to a great extent.

Edit: Keep in mind that "attractive" from the perspective of girls online has been taken to delusional levels. For a girl, a man is attractive if he is at least 2 points more attractive than her. That is; if she's a 6, you need to be an 8 for her to consider you "attractive". I posted a survey here a long time ago from OKC. It found that women rated 80% of men online as below average in looks. That is ridiculous.

 

[Purefilth]

100% true. I've been saying so for as long as I have been commenting on posts about "witty" profiles or openers.

Bottom line, you send a message and she immediately looks at your profile. Attractive? She responds. Not attractive? She ignores and deletes.

Pretty simple. Game is irrelevant online to a great extent.

Until you get her on a date and you are a boring wet rag who's only confident from behind a computer screen. That puts you in the "nextzone" / creeper category.

Thats where Game comes in. So Keep skillsets sharp.

 

[like2jam]

Edit: Keep in mind that "attractive" from the perspective of girls online has been taken to delusional levels. For a girl, a man is attractive if he is at least 2 points more attractive than her. That is; if she's a 6, you need to be an 8 for her to consider you "attractive". I posted a survey here a long time ago from OKC. It found that women rated 80% of men online as below average in looks. That is ridiculous.

This is really good to keep it mind. Especially when you're wondering why so many 7s are acting like they are 9s and 10s online.

 

[-Gripz-]

Man I put out so many messages last night it was crazy and only got one receptive girl. Its very difficult online.

Just last night this b!tch messages me back and says: "Is this your usual pick up line?" Why even message back if you're just going to be an a$$?

 

[like2jam]

Hey, I even had this hotty who favorited me, rated me highly and then decided to not respond when I messaged her a day later. I'm still scratching my head on that one.

On the plus side, I have a tentative date scheduled with a hotty in a couple of weeks. She contacted me two years ago. I found her old message and decided to contact her. She's into it. Although I think she'd just be a fwb type of woman.

 

[mv.89]

Hey, I even had this hotty who favorited me, rated me highly and then decided to not respond when I messaged her a day later. I'm still scratching my head on that one.

On the plus side, I have a tentative date scheduled with a hotty in a couple of weeks. She contacted me two years ago. I found her old message and decided to contact her. She's into it. Although I think she'd just be a fwb type of woman.

haha this has had happened with me so many times.

I'd think to myself okay she made the first move , I'd do the courtesy of messaging her and then no response or stupid responses. I just cut off right away and scratch my head over that lol