Online date from girl from real life. Need Help.

[NeedHelp]

Okay this is my first post but i used to browse this forum a bit.
Let me explain situation and please give feedback on what to do now [no what should been done in past].

I seen this girl about 3 years ago on some party. Then found her online like year later on some local community portal.
Since then we been e-mailing alot but she was with her bf all time who was jealous even of i-net chats, so our communication stopped.

Now after around 2 years i saw on this portal that hes not anymore with her, im alone now also so i mailed to her straight, that we should meet.
She said that yeah we should, but shes going out of city for vacations [it was around 4 weeks ago] she said for 2 weeks - and when shes back shes gonna msg me and we decide how to meet.

I kinda forgot about it and around 3 weeks lasted [i thought just 1 week lasted] but i saw her online so i msged 'hey its so boring on vacations that u are online?'.
she did not reply. next week [current] i noticed that its already 4 weeks so shes back but didnt msg me.
so i wrote something like 'whats up? we didnt meet yet and ur late already.. stop readying my msg and not knowing what to write back and just msg. would be good to meet before winter comes.'
she did not reply again.

im 28, shes 27. she doesnt know too much of me [im preety good in pua games in rea life, but on internet i suck].
Excuse my english - im not native.

So speaking shortly. Tell me how to play it to get the meeting. Please no options like 'next her' coz thats obvious
Thanks!

 

[Fallen]

Doesn't look like she's very interested. I think there is not much to "play".

Did somebody say "Next her!" ?

 

[squirrels]

Please no options like 'next her' coz thats obvious
Thanks!

If it's "obvious", then do it.

You and everyone else on this god-forsaken forum need to realize that there ARE NO MAGIC WORDS. If a woman is not responding to chat/E-mail/MySpace/whatever requests, you can NOT say something that's suddenly going to change her mind.

In a face-to-face encounter, there are other things at work besides just faceless words. You don't have that in E-mail, so stop trying to simulate it.

Dude, honestly...she blew you off. When a girl tells you that SHE will get back in touch with YOU, as a rule of thumb, 2 times in 3 it's a blow-off. She's trying to get rid of you without seeming dismissive.

If she was serious, you should've gotten her phone number right then and there. If she was serious, she would have given it to you.

The best thing you can do right now is NOTHING. You already look like a little puppy-dog begging for attention, the way you keep sending messages saying, "WAAAAH! DON'T IGNORE ME!!! WAAAAH!!"

And if you're gonna post in the Mature Man forum, put your age in your profile. This sounds like some middle-school stuff to me.

 

[NeedHelp]

heyehy

I meant, lots of times in such case i seen replies 'next her'. Next her is really no feedback right. Thats what i meant.

To other guy askin of age - read post on the top to the end - i wrote both ages.

She did blew off - we all know it. We didnt talk much since this 2 years as i said. Just my straight mail and her stright acceptance.
I do know when she sys shes gonna msg that means its blow off but it was like:
1. i write to meet
2. she accepts
3. i give exact time and place
4. she rewrites that this is no good, coz next day she leaves city for 2 weeks.

and then story goes. I forgot to write this middle part. so mainly after 2 years we had this 4 msgs + 2 more of me.

So is there anything to do or just inogre her and wait till we meet by mistake in real life. Also i could tell her we can meet in some clubs or so if shes affraid now or whaever happend to her. Well hit me with more feedback if possible.

 

[Alexander the Great]

Needhelp, you're not getting it.

This girl doesn't give a sh!t about you. If she did, she would have gotten back to you. The fact that she accepted your invitation and then said she couldn't make it because she had a vacation coming: classic tactic of getting rid of someone. "Say yes, then decline because something came up." It's called delaying. Some girls hope that you lose heart or that you get the message when they do it often enough. Girls are scared to plainly and directly tell you: "No, thanks. Rather not."

You probably got played, in other words. And don't get all excited by that "probably", thinking there's still a chance. There isn't one with 99% certainty. She would have responded to your other messages if she fell in that 1% category.

So, move on. Next! And that is just as good feedback as anything else is. You may not want to hear it, but hey, that's your problem.

If you don't want to do that, feel free to keep running after her, messaging her etcetera. Just know that there is nothing you can say or do that will magickally make this girl like you enough to get in touch with you. Hehe, yeah, if you keep messaging her, she'll eventually get in touch with you. She'll return your messages with something very rude, along the lines of: "Stop harassing me, freak!"

You obviously like this girl, that makes it hard to move on. We know. But just do it. You hardly know this girl anyway, judging from your story. You can't like her that much already. That's just plain desperation if you ask me.

And yes, PUT YOUR AGE IN YOUR PROFILE. It's a rule to be followed by everyone who wants to post in the Mature Man forum. FOLLOW THE RULES. Please.


PS.
Be prepared for rude remarks and feedback you don't want to hear, if you keep up the not listening.

 

[tony-montana]

yeah man, that's the only feedback you're gonna get. if she was interested she would of got in touch with you. it's as simple as that. also, to my knowledge, girls don't really care much for guys on the internet as they can just get almost any guy offline as easy as clicking their fingers. move on pal