"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

Online Convo...What do you think.

alphaace

Don Juan
Joined
Mar 6, 2007
Messages
111
Reaction score
0
Location
North Carolina
She initiated contact. Was through emails not instant messanger.

Her: Hi There :)

Me:Well hello there young lady ;) Whats life like up in *******.

Her: Its AMAZING!! I couldnt ask for it to be any better seeing that its beach season :) and what about in ***** county?

Me: Im pretty jealous, I wish I lived near the beach for the summer, haha.
Its always great in ***** country...well, minus the no beach thing. Having to drive to ****** or ******* beach is a pain. Its been pretty crappy lately though, rained all freaking week here!!

Her: We have had two pretty good days, well it was sunny in the morning and rained at night but I can deal with that. As long as it stays sunny and lets me lay out. So why drive to ***** and not *******????

Me: Yeah, it rained ALL week last week, had all my soccer games cancelled because the fields were unplayable. I don't go to ****** beach because its like an extra 20minutes away, and ******* is just as beautiful =)

Her: HA we had a works soccer team, we tried it for a season and gave up, we were horrible lol it was a female league HA never again!! We will stick to other sports that we do better!! Yea well that extra twenty mins could have you just happen to run into a girl like me on ***** beach HAHA

Me: Ha, their's a womens league here in ******** too. None of them are very good =p. Its always a drag when I get assigned to ref their games, lol.
Well if you would have told me you would be there I would have endured the extra twenty minutes =)

Her: Whatever you know good and well that you love to ref woman teams, you get to see hot chicks run around and get sweaty HA! :)

Me: HA! You must be kidding. You come down to ******* and take a look at these ladies and you might reconsider that "hot chicks" remark =p

Her: whatever, I am sure yall have some sexy girls there!!

Me: Well, I won't deny that there are some sexy ladies here in ******, they just don't seem to play soccer. Maybe you should move to ******* to up the sexy factor for the womens league ;)

Her: Or maybe you should just move to *** and be on the soccer league here and have the beach closer to you :)

Me: Mmmm, living near the beach definitly sounds like a winner. I don't know if I could though. All that salt water in the air would kill my truck. I love my truck to much for that ;)

Her: SHUT UP are you serious right now??? Lets be real.. Keeping your truck away from salt water or the beach and me?? HMMM I wonder what the winner will be, LOL I love my car, Its my baby, and well you just have to clean it more. what kind of truck do you have?

Me: Its nothing special but I love it. It is a 2000 Chevy S-10 and the best part is its a manual =) What kind of car do you have?

Her: you still have yet to answer my question... Keeping your truck away from salt water or the beach and me?? HMMM. I drive a 2008 Altima Coupe Its my baby

Me: Keeping my truck away from you of course!! I'd hate to know people are only looking at my truck because there a sexy woman standing next to it ;)

Her: You know :) Im good like that!! HAHA yea all eyes would be on me not the truck HAHA JK so when you coming to jax?

Me: Awww I think you just hurt my trucks feelings, hold on while I go comfort her..............ok im back ;) When am I coming to Jax? I think the real question should be when are YOU coming to Gville? =)

Her: Well *****, I think its time for me to hit the bed, you can hit me up tomorrow if you want! :)

Me: Goodnight =)

Her: Night sexy!! COME TO ******** SOON!!!!!!

----------------------------------------------------------------------

Any thoughts?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Read more...

nicelife

Don Juan
Joined
Aug 26, 2008
Messages
64
Reaction score
2
cant you tell shes keen? meet her at the beach and get busy!
 

Mars

Don Juan
Joined
Oct 1, 2008
Messages
31
Reaction score
0
What's the point of this thread? The answer is obvious and you just posted this to get everyone to laud over you.
 

pua1989

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Jul 14, 2006
Messages
292
Reaction score
3
i think youre in the friend zone you talk to her like another female
 

King Turi

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Apr 29, 2009
Messages
241
Reaction score
5
Jax and Gville?

EDIT: Oh, Gainsville, it's under your name, and I guess Jax is Jackson?

Go put it in her.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

Read more...

alphaace

Don Juan
Joined
Mar 6, 2007
Messages
111
Reaction score
0
Location
North Carolina
King Turi said:
Jax and Gville?

EDIT: Oh, Gainsville, it's under your name, and I guess Jax is Jackson?

Go put it in her.

haha ya, after thinking about im not sure what I was trying to protect by deleting the city names.
 
Top