"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Online Convo...What do you think.

alphaace

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She initiated contact. Was through emails not instant messanger.

Her: Hi There :)

Me:Well hello there young lady ;) Whats life like up in *******.

Her: Its AMAZING!! I couldnt ask for it to be any better seeing that its beach season :) and what about in ***** county?

Me: Im pretty jealous, I wish I lived near the beach for the summer, haha.
Its always great in ***** country...well, minus the no beach thing. Having to drive to ****** or ******* beach is a pain. Its been pretty crappy lately though, rained all freaking week here!!

Her: We have had two pretty good days, well it was sunny in the morning and rained at night but I can deal with that. As long as it stays sunny and lets me lay out. So why drive to ***** and not *******????

Me: Yeah, it rained ALL week last week, had all my soccer games cancelled because the fields were unplayable. I don't go to ****** beach because its like an extra 20minutes away, and ******* is just as beautiful =)

Her: HA we had a works soccer team, we tried it for a season and gave up, we were horrible lol it was a female league HA never again!! We will stick to other sports that we do better!! Yea well that extra twenty mins could have you just happen to run into a girl like me on ***** beach HAHA

Me: Ha, their's a womens league here in ******** too. None of them are very good =p. Its always a drag when I get assigned to ref their games, lol.
Well if you would have told me you would be there I would have endured the extra twenty minutes =)

Her: Whatever you know good and well that you love to ref woman teams, you get to see hot chicks run around and get sweaty HA! :)

Me: HA! You must be kidding. You come down to ******* and take a look at these ladies and you might reconsider that "hot chicks" remark =p

Her: whatever, I am sure yall have some sexy girls there!!

Me: Well, I won't deny that there are some sexy ladies here in ******, they just don't seem to play soccer. Maybe you should move to ******* to up the sexy factor for the womens league ;)

Her: Or maybe you should just move to *** and be on the soccer league here and have the beach closer to you :)

Me: Mmmm, living near the beach definitly sounds like a winner. I don't know if I could though. All that salt water in the air would kill my truck. I love my truck to much for that ;)

Her: SHUT UP are you serious right now??? Lets be real.. Keeping your truck away from salt water or the beach and me?? HMMM I wonder what the winner will be, LOL I love my car, Its my baby, and well you just have to clean it more. what kind of truck do you have?

Me: Its nothing special but I love it. It is a 2000 Chevy S-10 and the best part is its a manual =) What kind of car do you have?

Her: you still have yet to answer my question... Keeping your truck away from salt water or the beach and me?? HMMM. I drive a 2008 Altima Coupe Its my baby

Me: Keeping my truck away from you of course!! I'd hate to know people are only looking at my truck because there a sexy woman standing next to it ;)

Her: You know :) Im good like that!! HAHA yea all eyes would be on me not the truck HAHA JK so when you coming to jax?

Me: Awww I think you just hurt my trucks feelings, hold on while I go comfort her..............ok im back ;) When am I coming to Jax? I think the real question should be when are YOU coming to Gville? =)

Her: Well *****, I think its time for me to hit the bed, you can hit me up tomorrow if you want! :)

Me: Goodnight =)

Her: Night sexy!! COME TO ******** SOON!!!!!!

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Any thoughts?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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nicelife

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cant you tell shes keen? meet her at the beach and get busy!
 

Mars

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What's the point of this thread? The answer is obvious and you just posted this to get everyone to laud over you.
 

pua1989

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i think youre in the friend zone you talk to her like another female
 

King Turi

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Jax and Gville?

EDIT: Oh, Gainsville, it's under your name, and I guess Jax is Jackson?

Go put it in her.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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alphaace

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King Turi said:
Jax and Gville?

EDIT: Oh, Gainsville, it's under your name, and I guess Jax is Jackson?

Go put it in her.

haha ya, after thinking about im not sure what I was trying to protect by deleting the city names.
 
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