"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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SlyD4rK

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has anyone else realized this is flippin hard to do?

recently ive been using a lot of wink/smile/tongue happy faces with my comments....

but what do you guys think? avoid it or continue with smileys? or another strat?

comments?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Just avoid AIM in the first place. C&F is is about how you say things not just what you say, and that is virutally impossible online.
 

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i see so do you suggest that if im on, make it like a phone call? (quick, simple, short, and to-the-point) ?

thanks for input BTW
 

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It is a lot harder to do because you can't use body language and stuff...

I've found smilies are the way to go, I use the tongue one and the biggrin one a lot. Recently though I've just been saying screw it, more hassle than its worth and keeping my status offline or doing other stuff. Or just don't use it, have normal conversations to kill time..
 

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I only talk to my friends online. I do talk to chicks, but usually ones that I'm not working my game on. If I meet a new girl, I never give out my screen name or anything.

If there is a girl that has your screen name, never be the first to talk to her, take a long time to reply to them, and always sign off before they do (say you have to go cuz ur in a hurry or whatever)

But you want to avoid talking to girls on AIM if possible.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I'm not a real big fan of online C and F but if you're going to be online, make sure you're not online a whole lot. You tend to look like you don't have much of a life if a girl sees you on a lot. It's really hard to interpret though since you can't see the body language.
 

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You cannot do C&F over aim because aim sucks and you cannot communicate over aim. Use aim to set things up, don't flirt.
 
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