"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

Read more...

onenightis recourse?

georgie24

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Apr 28, 2003
Messages
472
Reaction score
8
Age
51
so i banged this hottie last weekend and we exchanged texts at least once a day up till about thursday, i went completley dark and stopped texting back and taking her calls

shes been texting me daily a few times a day and calling

my question is what kind of excuses can i come up with when i do talk to her again next week for not returning her messages or answering her calls?

im giving myself a breather from her as my past has resulted in staying in onenightis style rellationships
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

Read more...

youngmack

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 15, 2012
Messages
617
Reaction score
11
Location
New York City
Don't give her no excuses bro.. Just tell her you was busy or out with friends. She has to see that you arent too available for her. This is a good thing. REMEMBER you gotta be a mystery !
 

Droz88

Don Juan
Joined
Jul 19, 2012
Messages
132
Reaction score
2
I agree. Based on what I've read it seems like it would be best not to give an excuse or to just say you had a hectic schedule that week.

As a semi-afc/semi-alpha, i'd also be interested in hearing how you meet her and how it progressed to sex if you don't mind. How old are you two?
 

JumpOff

Don Juan
Joined
Jun 1, 2012
Messages
76
Reaction score
6
Location
OHIO
georgie24 said:
my question is what kind of excuses can i come up with when i do talk to her again next week for not returning her messages or answering her calls?
You were busy. On vaycay, etc.
 

georgie24

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Apr 28, 2003
Messages
472
Reaction score
8
Age
51
shes knows some people i do and a couple people to speak to almost daily, if she has done some triangulation work on her own she would of gotten the scoop on what im up to

after being with my last GF that was BDP im in full strategic mode with everyone around me now

how we met cliffs:

1. met for first time where she works ( retail) 2 years ago
2. about a year ago i see her out and about having drinks so i get the digits but nothing really came of it and fizzed away
3. month ago i see her out again and we start having drinks and chit chatting and keep in touch, she comes over my pad a couple weeks later and the magic happens

my only concern is that she's been triangulating for info, that would leave me no choice but to give her excuses as i dont want to be called a liar ect
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

Read more...

Renegade357

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jul 22, 2012
Messages
561
Reaction score
24
Location
Martinez, California
georgie24 said:
my only concern is that she's been triangulating for info, that would leave me no choice but to give her excuses as i dont want to be called a liar ect

Who cares dude, jsut keep being a challenge and asking her out once a week. Don't think about the past and stay away from the deadly oneitis. Keep texts and communication to a minimum between dates.
 

georgie24

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Apr 28, 2003
Messages
472
Reaction score
8
Age
51
Renegade357 said:
Who cares dude, jsut keep being a challenge and asking her out once a week. Don't think about the past and stay away from the deadly oneitis. Keep texts and communication to a minimum between dates.
thats the game plan from here on out, now i just need more plates to keep me busy

for me spinning plates = balls deep action

so far i have only 1 plate spinning
 
Top