"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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onenightis recourse?

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so i banged this hottie last weekend and we exchanged texts at least once a day up till about thursday, i went completley dark and stopped texting back and taking her calls

shes been texting me daily a few times a day and calling

my question is what kind of excuses can i come up with when i do talk to her again next week for not returning her messages or answering her calls?

im giving myself a breather from her as my past has resulted in staying in onenightis style rellationships
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

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Don't give her no excuses bro.. Just tell her you was busy or out with friends. She has to see that you arent too available for her. This is a good thing. REMEMBER you gotta be a mystery !
 
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I agree. Based on what I've read it seems like it would be best not to give an excuse or to just say you had a hectic schedule that week.

As a semi-afc/semi-alpha, i'd also be interested in hearing how you meet her and how it progressed to sex if you don't mind. How old are you two?
 
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georgie24 said:
my question is what kind of excuses can i come up with when i do talk to her again next week for not returning her messages or answering her calls?
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You were busy. On vaycay, etc.
 
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shes knows some people i do and a couple people to speak to almost daily, if she has done some triangulation work on her own she would of gotten the scoop on what im up to

after being with my last GF that was BDP im in full strategic mode with everyone around me now

how we met cliffs:

1. met for first time where she works ( retail) 2 years ago
2. about a year ago i see her out and about having drinks so i get the digits but nothing really came of it and fizzed away
3. month ago i see her out again and we start having drinks and chit chatting and keep in touch, she comes over my pad a couple weeks later and the magic happens

my only concern is that she's been triangulating for info, that would leave me no choice but to give her excuses as i dont want to be called a liar ect
 

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She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

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georgie24 said:
my only concern is that she's been triangulating for info, that would leave me no choice but to give her excuses as i dont want to be called a liar ect
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Who cares dude, jsut keep being a challenge and asking her out once a week. Don't think about the past and stay away from the deadly oneitis. Keep texts and communication to a minimum between dates.
 
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Who cares dude, jsut keep being a challenge and asking her out once a week. Don't think about the past and stay away from the deadly oneitis. Keep texts and communication to a minimum between dates.
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thats the game plan from here on out, now i just need more plates to keep me busy

for me spinning plates = balls deep action

so far i have only 1 plate spinning
 
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