"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Oneitis Trying to come back

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I know this is my first post, but i have been reading DJ forums for about 2 months so im not a complete noob but anyway, My oneitis (HB8) that I finally got the courage to next and break off all contact with is trying to make her way back into my group. It has been 3 weeks of no contact and before I nexted her she made friends with my friend J and was flirting or showing IOI's to him. Hes not that good of a friend hes just kinda friends with my other friend, and I called him on **** blocking before with this chick and he didn't seem to care, if anything it just made him want to go for her more. My point is he knows I like her and invites her to hang out with our friends. What are your opinions, to bail on my friends just to avoid getting sucked back into oneitis. But if im not there and I hear that they end up hooking up, I would probably be mad.
I know i shouldn't care but its kinda hard when she also wants to hang out with him.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Bluesteak said:
I know this is my first post, but i have been reading DJ forums for about 2 months so im not a complete noob but anyway, My oneitis (HB8) that I finally got the courage to next and break off all contact with is trying to make her way back into my group. It has been 3 weeks of no contact and before I nexted her she made friends with my friend J and was flirting or showing IOI's to him. Hes not that good of a friend hes just kinda friends with my other friend, and I called him on **** blocking before with this chick and he didn't seem to care, if anything it just made him want to go for her more. My point is he knows I like her and invites her to hang out with our friends. What are your opinions, to bail on my friends just to avoid getting sucked back into oneitis. But if im not there and I hear that they end up hooking up, I would probably be mad.
I know i shouldn't care but its kinda hard when she also wants to hang out with him.
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Ive been through a similar situation as yours 2 years ago: Me and this chick had 'something', she got accepted into my social group, she broke it off with me, now she's hanging out with my friends, this made oneitis THAT much harder to kill, ALL my friends knew that I still liked her, I called her out on alot of sh!t thus ending our 'friendship', my friend that I trusted the most in the group backstabbed me and went for her behind my back...I then got ostricized by the group by the both of them after they hooked up. THE END.

Yea...your 'friend' is a douche. Also, that girl knows that by going for your friend its going to affect you negatively. Its a spite move. My advice would be to stay clear of them(or your entire group) unless you know that you can handle the torture...
 
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Rebound Material said:
Ive been through a similar situation as yours 2 years ago: Me and this chick had 'something', she got accepted into my social group, she broke it off with me, now she's hanging out with my friends, this made oneitis THAT much harder to kill, ALL my friends knew that I still liked her, I called her out on alot of sh!t thus ending our 'friendship', my friend that I trusted the most in the group backstabbed me and went for her behind my back...I then got ostricized by the group by the both of them after they hooked up. THE END.

Yea...your 'friend' is a douche. Also, that girl knows that by going for your friend its going to affect you negatively. Its a spite move. My advice would be to stay clear of them(or your entire group) unless you know that you can handle the torture...
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yea, hes not even a friend, hes kinda like a guy that just hangs out with us, so i cant really tell him to not talk to her or don't invite her because then he would feel alpha
 
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