Oneitis Trying to come back

[Bluesteak]

I know this is my first post, but i have been reading DJ forums for about 2 months so im not a complete noob but anyway, My oneitis (HB8) that I finally got the courage to next and break off all contact with is trying to make her way back into my group. It has been 3 weeks of no contact and before I nexted her she made friends with my friend J and was flirting or showing IOI's to him. Hes not that good of a friend hes just kinda friends with my other friend, and I called him on **** blocking before with this chick and he didn't seem to care, if anything it just made him want to go for her more. My point is he knows I like her and invites her to hang out with our friends. What are your opinions, to bail on my friends just to avoid getting sucked back into oneitis. But if im not there and I hear that they end up hooking up, I would probably be mad.
I know i shouldn't care but its kinda hard when she also wants to hang out with him.

 

[Bluesteak]

Oh and btw he knows im nexting her and trying to get over her

 

[Rebound Material]

I know this is my first post, but i have been reading DJ forums for about 2 months so im not a complete noob but anyway, My oneitis (HB8) that I finally got the courage to next and break off all contact with is trying to make her way back into my group. It has been 3 weeks of no contact and before I nexted her she made friends with my friend J and was flirting or showing IOI's to him. Hes not that good of a friend hes just kinda friends with my other friend, and I called him on **** blocking before with this chick and he didn't seem to care, if anything it just made him want to go for her more. My point is he knows I like her and invites her to hang out with our friends. What are your opinions, to bail on my friends just to avoid getting sucked back into oneitis. But if im not there and I hear that they end up hooking up, I would probably be mad.
I know i shouldn't care but its kinda hard when she also wants to hang out with him.

Ive been through a similar situation as yours 2 years ago: Me and this chick had 'something', she got accepted into my social group, she broke it off with me, now she's hanging out with my friends, this made oneitis THAT much harder to kill, ALL my friends knew that I still liked her, I called her out on alot of sh!t thus ending our 'friendship', my friend that I trusted the most in the group backstabbed me and went for her behind my back...I then got ostricized by the group by the both of them after they hooked up. THE END.

Yea...your 'friend' is a douche. Also, that girl knows that by going for your friend its going to affect you negatively. Its a spite move. My advice would be to stay clear of them(or your entire group) unless you know that you can handle the torture...

 

[Bluesteak]

Ive been through a similar situation as yours 2 years ago: Me and this chick had 'something', she got accepted into my social group, she broke it off with me, now she's hanging out with my friends, this made oneitis THAT much harder to kill, ALL my friends knew that I still liked her, I called her out on alot of sh!t thus ending our 'friendship', my friend that I trusted the most in the group backstabbed me and went for her behind my back...I then got ostricized by the group by the both of them after they hooked up. THE END.

Yea...your 'friend' is a douche. Also, that girl knows that by going for your friend its going to affect you negatively. Its a spite move. My advice would be to stay clear of them(or your entire group) unless you know that you can handle the torture...

yea, hes not even a friend, hes kinda like a guy that just hangs out with us, so i cant really tell him to not talk to her or don't invite her because then he would feel alpha