Oneitis question

[navyseal2101]

Is it still an onitis if she will sleep with me? She is like a rly chill and HB9 girl and when I try I cant rly think of a flaw of her, so I was thinking about cutting her out of my life incase I get to attached, is this a good or bad idea? BTW I think about her more often then i'd like to admit, I may be getting a bit obsessed which is why i'm concerned.

 

[WesCottII]

Cut her out. No questions, never leads anywhere remotley worth going to.

 

[TheHumanist]

Wait? What? Okay... she they are together and he is developing an attachment to her... why dump her again? Self-control and patience is needed, I don't see any alarm for cutting her out, unless starting to develop feelings counts...

Edit: ah, you don't want to get attached (missed that little detail), getting attached is expected being around long enough, but if you don't... yeah, better to get out before you can't bring yourself to. Though make sure that is in your best interest.

 

[Grand Wizzard Alamar]

Unless you can control your "obsession" and put yourself and your life before her, you should start moving away from her.

 

[Grand Wizzard Alamar]

ty yeah, thats how I'm forgetting about girls I used to like.
instead of people telling you or you trying to think of how bad a girl could be, you just simply move on.

1 in 4,000,000,000 females is one of a kind... can you believe those odds? I sure don't. find the 2nd in 4,000,000,000 then the 3rd and the 4th, etc.

Don't waste your time or life if you recieve little or nothing in return.

 

[navyseal2101]

Well I do get things in return. alot of good things... thats why i'm asking b/c even though i'm getting what I want i'm getting attached, it's not that shes not putting out.

 

[Grand Wizzard Alamar]

yeah man I actually think you're not obsessed, making this topic in the first place shows that you're able to control yourself if you need to.

keep her, more good will come from it than bad at this point.

just be a little less obsessed and ur fine.

 

[navyseal2101]

Ok, thanks guys.

 

[Bling]

I've had plenty of one-itis. The only thing that seems to work for me is still talking to her, but no flirting. Also kiss another girl. Just kiss her. She could be the ugliest SOB. It gets better with every kiss.

 

[Grand Wizzard Alamar]

give a hug to your mom lol and you'll feel better....

 

[navyseal2101]

Wow, I have to say what timing. She just broke up with me... it feels like how it used to. mabye its for the better? IDK what I did, I know better then to ask, but I do care. You think she was cheating on me? This is ridiculous, ever since i've improved myself no denials etc. and now I get dumped by the girl that matters to me. I guess this is something I have to get used to also, mabye getting dumped 10 times will make it hurt less. Im going to watch fight club to cheer up, be on later.

 

[Grand Wizzard Alamar]

well dude at least...

YOU'RE FREE! haha

 

[navyseal2101]

hahha, yea fight club is good. anyway i met another new girl today so i can keep my ranks up to an acceptable level.