"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Oneitis led to death?!

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http://www.thesun.co.uk/article/0,,4-2007200602,00.html

“He struggled to cope with her seeing somebody else. The fact it was Colin Farrell must have made matters worse. As time passed things got worse for John.”

Poor bastard killing himself over a girl. Too bad he didn't find sosuave and would have seen that there are ways to beat and avoid oneitis and understand that there is no such thing as "the one".
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Which builds a premise to "why the hell would you settle?"


Yea, at times it's scary to look back. Last week I had Wyldfire shed some light on my past, it hit really hard when you realize that all the AFC problems you were having were related to past. Now that I think about it, it all started to happen when mom and dad began fighting. Thus, AFC, at least for me, was a mental illness brought on by surroundings. Some people go through life like that and some off them selfs.

I doubt that he'd pay much attention to SS if he found it. It's most affective when you decide you need a change, even then, you mis trust information until it proves it self to be right.
 

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I find this quote to be funny:

A source close to Muireann confirmed she had been left shattered. The friend said: “She is having trouble coping with this.”

I am sorry to say but women don't give a rat's ass about the guy they dump other wise they wouldn't dump him. I am sure she is having trouble thinking about it when she lays naked in Colin's arms after steamy sex. In reality she is the envy of all her girlfriends. In chick world she gets 10,000 points for dating Colin and another 10,000 points for having a guy commit a suicide because he can't live without her. Women live for that kind of drama.
 

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I'd be pretty fvcked off and despondent if my girl left me for Sonny Crockett like that. I couldn't hate him for it though.
 

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The question is why did he kill himself not Colin Farrel? :rolleyes:

Same reason his girl left him... No ambition.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Atleast he didn't take a gun and kill others.
 

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DJDamage said:
I find this quote to be funny:

A source close to Muireann confirmed she had been left shattered. The friend said: “She is having trouble coping with this.”

I am sorry to say but women don't give a rat's ass about the guy they dump other wise they wouldn't dump him. I am sure she is having trouble thinking about it when she lays naked in Colin's arms after steamy sex. In reality she is the envy of all her girlfriends. In chick world she gets 10,000 points for dating Colin and another 10,000 points for having a guy commit a suicide because he can't live without her. Women live for that kind of drama.
Just because she dumped him doesn't mean she has no feelings. She is still human, she is not his girlfriend anymore, but does not mean she have turn completely cold-hearted to him. Do you really think she is thinking "YES! Now all the other girls will envy me! I love this drama!" Only in the worse of enemies would a person truly wish for death on the other person, especially when you are connected to the reason to anyone's death.
 

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TheHumanist said:
Just because she dumped him doesn't mean she has no feelings.

You're right she probably feels bad for the poor sap, so she jumps on Colin's d1ck to make herself feel better. :D
 
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